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Mary Kochan - who has written 166 posts on Catholic Exchange.


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The Faith at your Fingertips

Posted on 04 September 2008

[S]eeing that time seizes upon all things human, we also in turn ought to snatch from it something which may profit us to eternal life, especially since a certain awful expectation of the approach of the divine judgment importunately demands increased earnestness in religion, while the subtle craftiness of new heretics calls for no ordinary […]

Reader Asserts: Democratic Party Is Aligned with Catholic Values

Posted on 17 July 2008

To CE Editors:
I am a long-time Catholic, and it saddens me to see Catholic organizations embracing a party that stands for everything traditional Catholics do not, such as bigotry, oppression of the poor and disabled, a war on human rights, deregulatory policies that have turned this country into a sleazy x-rated sideshow carnival on our […]

Tony Snow: An Integrated Life

Posted on 14 July 2008

The news that Tony Snow, a Catholic convert and national media figure, had lost his battle with colon cancer in the wee hours of Saturday morning was not a surprise, but it was still a sad disappointment. He is survived by his wife Jill and three children. God comfort them.
Tony Snow always considered himself a […]

Teens and the Celebrity Culture

Posted on 29 May 2008

It is almost impossible to get away from the media’s fascination with the self-destructive tendencies of modern celebrities. Whether it is the tabloid splashing a picture of Britney Spears in and out of rehab, or a video circulating across cyberspace of Amy Winehouse using a crack pipe, the trend seems ever-with-us.
And whether we realize it […]

First the Protestants, Now the Cults: Will We Be Ready?

Posted on 29 May 2008

One of the most amazing works of the Holy Spirit over the past couple of decades or so has been the wave of Protestant converts coming into the Catholic Church.  Notable among them have been the Protestant ministers — the tip of the iceberg of whom have been the names that have become well-known in […]

What is Your Life Worth?

Posted on 19 May 2008

You can’t put a price on your life, can you?  The question of what your life is worth quickly takes you out of valuations measured in money or in terms of any material good.  Your life, in every meaning of the term, is priceless, isn’t it?
Does it matter at all — does it enter into […]

What’s the Truth about Youth?

Posted on 24 April 2008

To the amazement of many talking heads, our 81-year-old pontiff received the welcome of a rock star by multiple thousands of American youths in nearly every venue of his visit last week. Why was this all wrong? Let us count the ways.
First there is the simple fact that he is old. He is a relic […]

How Obama Got All Tied Up in Moral Knots

Posted on 05 April 2008

"I've got two daughters. Nine-years-old and six-years-old. I am going to teach them first of all about values and morals. But if they make a mistake, I don't want them punished with a baby. I don't want them punished with an STD at the age of sixteen" — Barack Obama, comments at a Pennsylvania town hall meeting on March 29th.

What grabbed a lot of attention about this comment was Obama's reference to a potential baby, his own grandbaby, as a "punishment". This, it was pointed out, was especially offensive to "single moms," and issued, as one commenter put it, "a slap in the face to every child born to a young mother." Perhaps so, but I thought this comment was profoundly tangled and interesting for a number of reasons.

Now You Can Literally Rest on His Word

Posted on 25 March 2008

Sally Strle, had often petitioned God for guidance about starting a home business. She especially wanted something that would make use of her interest in sewing and that would allow her to spread the Catholic faith.

When the idea came to her of creating a line of pillowcases imprinted with images and prayers - like lovely holy cards you can lay your head on - she felt her payers were answered. Rest On His Word was born in her imagination. But it would take more than a good idea for this grandmother, active in volunteer work but without any business experience, to bring the plan to life.

On the Holocaust, Hedgehogs, and Helping in Romania

Posted on 11 February 2008

This article is not about the Holocaust.  And so I should be very careful, for those who decry comparisons to the Holocaust have a point.  It should never be a trite or passing reference.
I think pro-lifers have a very good case to make for comparing abortion to the Holocaust.  The reasons were enumerated here just recently.  […]

He’s Not a Complication; He’s a Candidate

Posted on 09 February 2008

The Washington Post headline read: "Huckabee Complicates GOP Contest."
Wrong. What is complicating the GOP contest is the attempt to imagine, craft, articulate, and sell a "conservatism" that does not have respect for the dignity of life as its most fundamental value.
What conservatism is supposed to be conserving, as in preserving and passing on, is classical […]

Political Junkie Fix: How to Keep Up with the Polls

Posted on 12 January 2008

Blog Entry:
Got a favorite in the horserace and want to watch him pull ahead, fall back, and take the lead again… maybe.  What you need is an easy way to keep track of the polls.  Of course they might be all wet – like the predictions that Obama was going to take New Hampshire, […]

Beef Up your Tax I.Q. — Fair Tax Info Online

Posted on 08 January 2008

Blog Entry:
Now that Huckabee has made such a big and unexpected splash, you are going to hear more and more about the tax reform proposal he has endorsed – the "Fair Tax."  Here are a couple of sources if you are interested in delving more deeply into this issue:
The book about the Fair Tax […]

A Clean Desk – Yes, You CAN Have One

Posted on 05 January 2008

Blog Post:
Here is a great blog post on how to have — and keep – a clean desk.
A messy desk is a sign of creativity and imagination. This is the excuse I gave myself for the mountain of papers, knickknacks, and San Pellegrino bottles normally piled on my desk at work. Truth is, I'm just lazy. […]

Should We Rethink the Way We Are Educating Our Daughters?

Posted on 05 January 2008

Women's minds are just as valuable and just as needful of good education as those of men.  Young women hunger intellectually just as young men do and are just as capable (at least as capable!) of benefitting from full educational opportunities.
That should go without saying, but it had to be said — in fact it […]

Politics and Theology: Questioning the Romney Candidacy

Posted on 31 December 2007

Last Thursday in this space, CE published a reprint of an article by Terry Mattingly, "The Exaltation of Mitt Romney," a brief examination of some of the political implications for Romney of a few aspects of his Mormon religion.
Reader reaction to the article in our space was very engaged and intense. Some readers argued that […]

We Found Him!

Posted on 29 December 2007

Christmas was just a little strange this year — it is my fault.
Well, not exactly my fault but the fault of somebody in my family.  And admittedly, it did start with me.
Being of practical mentality — not to mention being too sick all through Advent to even get the wreath out of the shed this year — […]

The Family Notebook

Posted on 26 December 2007

Blog Post:
We at CE on Time hope the tips and motivation we have shared with you this past year have helped you have a more productive and organized year in 2007.
With 2008 right around the corner you may be assessing how you can extend your organized approach to life and work to other […]

The Right Place for Your Faith Story

Posted on 26 November 2007

Ever see the bumper sticker for organ donation that says "Don't take your organs to heaven — heaven knows we need them here"? Well there is something else that heaven knows you need to leave behind for the good of others: your testimony of faith.
Consider what you do when you tell others how God has […]

Blind Painter — So What are Your Limits?

Posted on 23 November 2007

Blog Entry:
 
File under "I Really Am Not Demanding Nearly Enough of Myself" or maybe under "One of the Most Amazing Things I Have Ever Seen" — a blind painter developes a Braille-like painting technique. On YouTube, of course.

The Price of Salvation: The Life of Christ

Posted on 20 November 2007

Blog Entry:
 
This beautiful YouTube video is called The Price of Salvation: The Life of Christ. It features the life of Christ as conceived by some of the greatest artists over the past 1000 years, wonderfully set to music.

Keys to Heaven

Posted on 19 November 2007

How do you make sense of your life? What goes on in the heart and mind that gives each of us a sense of "me?"  Our faith teaches us that we human beings are made for relationships. Our experience tells us that the stories of our lives are stories of our relationships with others and […]

Hillary in ’08 — Counting on the Catholic Vote: An Interview with Paul Kengor

Posted on 17 November 2007

Paul Kengor, author of spiritual biographies of Ronald Reagan and George W. Bush, is a professor of political science at Grove City College in Grove City, Pennsylvania. His new book, God and Hillary Clinton, traces the upbringing and spiritual path of the woman who has come closest to the highest office in the United States. Kengor […]

How’s Your Office Looking?

Posted on 16 November 2007

Blog Post:
Ariane Benefit, M.S.Ed. (gotta love that last name!) of the Neat and Simple Living Blog http://blog.neatandsimple.com/ is offering a free 29 page e-book with over 100 tips for organizing your office and desk, taking charge of your paper, organizing your contacts and more. Go here http://www.neatandsimple.com/free-ebook.html to download it. Her website also […]

Do You Need Two Monitors?

Posted on 01 November 2007

Blog Post:
A couple of years ago, any suggestion that I would have two computer monitors would have had me in scornful denial.  One was bad enough!  Since I work so much online, I often felt frustrated with "being stuck staring at this dumb screen for hours!"  So why in Heaven's name would I want […]

Touching Pro-life Song: Listen Now Online

Posted on 27 October 2007

Blog Entry:
Download this terrific pro-life song and share with others or download sheet music for performances. "We Want to See the World" by David Burke.

Swiftly Speaking

Posted on 19 October 2007

On October 19, 1745, Jonathan Swift, the Irish author, died at age 78.  Swift is famous for writing Gulliver's Travels.  It is often considered a book for children, with Gulliver visiting first a land where he is a giant among the Lilliputians, and then a land where he is himself a miniature in a land […]

St. Jerome and the Text of Scripture

Posted on 29 September 2007

September 30, 430 saw the death of the Latin Church Father St. Jerome and hence September 30th is his feast day. Jerome spent the last half of his life rendering the Scriptures into the contemporary Latin of his day.  Since Latin was at that time, the common or "vulgar" tongue, his translation was called the […]

Video Show on 40 Days of Prayer and Fasting to End Abortion

Posted on 20 September 2007

Blog Entry:
This is a 29 minute video program concerning the upcoming 40 Days of Prayer and Fasting. You can get more information at www.40daysforlife.com and then view this show here.
This is something that can be done as a parish, family, or individual, and is also an ecumenical effort. About 84 cities in 33 states are involved […]

In God We Trust

Posted on 20 September 2007

Blog Entry:
Check out CatholicMil's latest, "In God We Trust" song and video on YouTube.
To find out how you can help Catholic military families and the chaplains who serve them, go here.

More on Saving Money on Postage

Posted on 17 September 2007

Blog Post:
This is a follow-up to Lisa Hendey's blog post on using media mail to save money on postage. Even if all you usually mail are cards and letters, there are some easy tips for saving on postage from home.
Think about how many times you are mailing something from home and you know that it has more […]

USCCB Appointment Dismays Pro-lifers

Posted on 16 September 2007

Blog Entry:
Denise Hunnell aka Catholic Mom has asked some very important questions regarding the USCCB's appointment of Kathy Saile as the new Director of Domestic Policy for the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops.
This important and very public post has gone to a woman who was a featured speaker at a 2006 (that ain't all […]

Did the Elephant Forget Life?

Posted on 27 August 2007

The Elephant Party sent me a letter to let me know how important my commitment and support are "as we approach an election that will be a watershed moment in our nation's history."  It seems like this must be the third, or is it the fourth, election in a row billed as a "watershed moment" […]

How Moms Get to Heaven

Posted on 23 August 2007

Blog Entry:
They take the kids grocery shopping!  Mom of 6 explains why she is selling the Pokeman cards on eBay.
(No, I didn't mean that grocery shopping with kids was heaven — but it sure can shorten your time in purgatory.)

Those @#$%&* School Forms

Posted on 09 August 2007

Blog Post:
If you have just sent or are about to send the kids off to school, you know what I mean. In the first week of school they are going to trudge into the house clutching pages upon pages of school paperwork in their little fists.
What is all boils down to is a […]

Behind the Scenes and Below the Fold

Posted on 09 August 2007

The emails were coming nearly every day.  They were desperate and urgent — and they were long.  They were from Eric Encina in the Philippines, a man whom I had never met, but who found Catholic Exchange on the internet and was sure that here someone would listen and someone would help.  The subject lines […]

“Light of Life” — A Madonna and Child Icon for Our Age

Posted on 01 August 2007

I have never believed that abortion was anything other than a violation of God's command against murder.  Even though I grew up in a pseudo-Christian cult (Jehovah's Witnesses) I recognized that, and so, when I finally became a Protestant Christian, there was little to change in my understanding on that subject.  But when I became […]

Inbox Zero — Where We all Want to Be

Posted on 26 July 2007

Blog Post:
Okay, so Merlin Mann of 43 Folders was invited to address a bunch of Google's techs on how to achieve getting their inboxes to zero and boy, would you have liked to be a fly on the wall in that room.
Fret not, for you can watch and listen to the whole thing here: […]

Soccer Mom Extols Baseball Film

Posted on 25 July 2007

Blog Entry:
Catholic Soccer Mom, Christine, and owner of two blogs Ramblings of a Catholic Soccer Mom and Domestic Vocation, has a terrific review of Champions of Faith along with her thoughts about why our children need examples of public Catholics. Here is an excerpt:
"Our goal is to play in the Big League with God."
"Ask […]

Dreaming of Children in Canada: Pro-life Song Hits #1

Posted on 03 July 2007

Blog Entry:
These are the lyrics of the second verse of the number one song in Quebec right now, translated from French and heard here (with English subtitles):
Your great-great-grandmother had 14 children
Your great-grandmother had almost as many
And as for your grandmother three were enough for her
And your mother didn't even want you
You were just an […]

Summer and Celebration

Posted on 21 June 2007

June 21 is the first day of summer because it is the day of the summer solstice.
Okay, just a quick review of your high school astronomy.  In summer and winter we have solstices — the summer solstice is the longest day of the year and the winter solstice is the shortest day of the year […]

What If There Is No Good Pro-Life Presidential Choice in ‘08?

Posted on 06 June 2007

Here's to hoping and praying that one of the pro-life candidates now in the Republican field or who may enter the nomination race, ends up being the Republican Party's nominee. Here's to working and donating to make that a reality.
Speaking of reality, it is a distinct possibility that pro-lifers will end up with no one […]

Nature, Grace, and Home Runs

Posted on 15 May 2007

Grace builds on nature.
This is an axiom of our faith. It means that Thomas Aquinas had to study and that Michelangelo had to pay his dues as an apprentice artist. It means that God blesses our efforts and establishes the work of our hands (Ps 90: 17) but that there is real sweat in the […]

Spiritual Formation by Drill Sergeant

Posted on 14 May 2007

Blog Entry:
USMC: Making the world (or at least the seminary) safe for orthodoxy. Very funny YouTube video. 

Interested in Biblical Hebrew?

Posted on 10 May 2007

Blog Entry:
Here is a great offer from a language software company: A Free Word-by-Word Genesis CD is being made available as a joint project of jewishsoftware.com and the Jewish Continuity Foundation.
One Free CD per household while supplies (500) last.
Word by Word teaches the meaning and pronunciation of every Hebrew word in the book of […]

Canadian Stands Up to Anti-Catholic Ad

Posted on 10 May 2007

Blog Entry:
John Pacheco, a Canadian friend of Catholic Exchange, has fired off a letter to Mac Convenience Stores to protest their mockery of the Catholic faith in an ad campaign featuring a nun and a praying goat. See the ad poster and John's letter at his blog SoCon or Bust.

Six Months or Six Years

Posted on 21 April 2007

Blog Post:
A dear man in my parish is facing the loss of his spouse.  She has been diagnosed with late-stage, widespread untreatable cancer.  The cancer is slow-growing however, so when my husband and I spoke to him recently he told us, "It could be six months; it could be six years. No one […]

Sympathy for the Devil

Posted on 11 April 2007

April 11, 1930, was the birthday of Anton Szandor LaVey.  He was born in Chicago, but his family moved to California when he was a small child and he spent most of his life in the Bay Area. He died on October 29, 1997, in St. Mary's Hospital in San Francisco.  You may be surprised […]

The Indispensable Priesthood

Posted on 05 April 2007

Today, Holy Thursday, we celebrate the institution of the Eucharist and the establishment of the priesthood.  Many people today question the necessity of the Catholic priesthood.  They may deny that it was established by Christ and claim that it is an innovation of the 2nd or 3rd or 4th century.  Or they may recognize its […]

Spiritual Trees?

Posted on 30 March 2007

As annoying as PBS can sometimes be, you've got to hand it to them for This Old House, Ask This Old House, and The New Yankee Workshop which explains why the TV was on the other night, and my husband was actually awake, when Tom Silva's demonstration on how to replace deck boards intersected a spot […]

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